Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Too Often

Ever have one of those moments where God reminds you just how blessed you are, and you are convicted for your selfishness, unthankfulness, etc...?  That has been me recently.  One sunny afternoon last week, Jason and Connor were playing outside, so I grabbed my camera and captured these shots.

Looking at them on the computer that night, the Holy Spirit brought to my attention how ungrateful I have been lately for my wonderful husband.  I am alway thanking Him for the blessing of our son, but too often I neglect to remind myself (and Jason) how much he means to me, and how thankful I am for a Godly partner.


Too often, I find myself complaining that I don't get enough help (although I am always in the market for extra help), while ignoring all the things Jason does do for our family, the extra responsibilities he takes on at the radio station, at church, with the Y-Club, and the fact that he has actually started ironing his own clothes (most of the time).


Too often I find myself nagging him about my list of things to be done, when I know that he already knows what needs to be done and would probably be more likely to help without my "nudging."


Too often I ignore the sparkle in his eye when he sees our son each afternoon, and how Connor giggles in delight at each tickle, spin, or piggyback ride.


 Too often I am in my own bubble of school, housework, and everyday life to remind him how much I respect and cherish him and our relationship.


Too often I mention what he doesn't do, instead of appreciating the planning and care he takes to make moments special, such as planning a weekly Christmas Movie Monday night, complete with a movie choice, theme, and goodies.

My husband is strong, intelligent, funny, spontaneous, driven, perfectionistic, and romantic (at heart, although I do miss the days of sweet Post-It notes on the mirror, hint, hint).


While Connor is a pretty great blend of the two of us, I can see the little mischevious sparkle in his eye sometimes that could only come from Jason, and I love it.  I love that he has Jason's perfect lips and maniacal laugh.


These pictures reminded me that in spite of all of my complaints, wishes, hopes, and dreams for our marriage and for the future, I am pretty blessed right where I am today.


There is nothing more endearing than to see my husband in the role of father.  It brings out the best in him: tenderness, compassion, humor, and reckless abandon for all the stresses of life.


It is then that I see the carefree Jason I met 11 years ago, fell for, and am still madly in love with today.


Sometimes I just need a reminder of just how blessed I am.  At least for today, God, I get it.

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Cold Weather Fashion Wishlist

In my spare time, these are a few of the things I have been admiring for the upcoming colder temperatures (allthough I am starting to wonder if it will stay cold -- it is mid-November and the high today is 63):

Source: etsy.com via Laura on Pinterest


I love chevron prints, and especially the print and color on this bold bag from Etsy.






A fellow blogger raved about La Mer watches, so I checked out their website, and I fell in love. These watches are fun and funky but still classy.  I especially love the wrap element.  The two above (in tobacco and plum) are my favorites, but there are tons more options.


 
Source: lulus.com via Laura on Pinterest

 winter leggings from Lulu's -- fun, festive, and warm



Source: etsy.com via Laura on Pinterest

tall socks with boots (These are from Etsy) -- I am not certain if I am young or trendy enough to pull this look off, but it is too cute!




Source: loft.com via Laura on Pinterest


I love the idea of a blazer out of sweater material: comfortable yet structured.  This one is from Ann Taylor LOFT.

Source: gap.com via Laura on Pinterest


I am one of those strange people who loves colored pants, and this bright green pair from Gap is right up my alley.



There is something very appealing about a long, thick cardigan in the winter, especially with skinny jeans and boots.  This one from Old Navy is cute and reasonably priced.


Source: etsy.com via Laura on Pinterest


It is no secret that I love a good hair accessory, and although I rarely purchase any of them, I find myself looking at them often.  This one from Love Stitched (Etsy shop) is one of my favorites.  I love the color and the lace.






I love the products from Gussy Sews, one of my favorite blogs/shops. She also makes the cutest Kindle covers.















Another favorite hair accessory handmade line I love is Whippycake.  I love that this be clipped in or put on a headband.

Source: gap.com via Laura on Pinterest


One item I do not have in my wardrobe is an infinity scarf.  I like the versatile color and the texture of this one from Gap.


I love the hourglass look of a wrap sweater.




Lace can be a difficult trend.  It can sometimes look too bridal, and with too much black lace, it can get a little hoochie.  But as a girly-girl, I love a touch of lace, and I think this Ann Taylor shirt has just the right amount to make it romantic and classic.


These last two looks are pieces I love if there were no budget, no mortgage, or for those of you with a more limitless supply of cash than I possess.  These just happen to be two of, in my opinion, the cutest dresses on the planet.


Lace and tulle, two of my favorite things.  I think this dress would awaken my unfulfilled childhood desire of being a ballerina.  It is just so pretty, feminine, and the best part, it's even modest!  I love it with the mustard tights, too.  Too bad it's from Anthropologie, and not on sale.  Boo.




And this last one may just be my favorite.  This dress is from a boutique in Arkansas called Riffraff.  I found them via Facebook, and they have some of the most unique, whimsical, and adorable clothes I've ever seen.  This dress, though, tops them all.  I love the fact that on top it just looks like a casual sweaterdress, but the bottom is all sparkle and ruffles.  It would be perfect with tights and heels, but just as adorable with leggings or skinny jeans and some cute flats.  I could think of a million ways to wear it, if only it were cheaper.  :)  I think it's the perfect balance of comfortable and fun, and as my mom knows well, this girl cannot resist a sparkle.  :)

I'd love to know what cold-weather looks you are loving right now, especially if they are budget-friendly.  :)  Happy winter window shopping! 

Friday, November 11, 2011

Friday Facts and Photos

This week, the Davidson family has been plagued (minus Jason) by lots of coughing and drainage.  I think Connor and I both caught a cold, which turned into a sinus infection for me, so our weekend plans were amended due to our lack of energy and overall feeling of yuckiness.

On Friday we were supposed to drop Jason off at the football game, visit my mom, sis, and their church youth group at an event they had planned, and then pick Jason back up after the game.  Connor and I were in no shape to go out, so we decided to snuggle on the couch instead, and Jason eventually decided he would do the same, instead of going to the game.  Despite feeling bad, it was actually a nice night at home together.  Connor watched The Rescuers (or at least most of it) for the first time, and we spent lots of time downstairs playing on his favorite racetrack.

Saturday was one of my favorite days of the year: Christmas decorating.  Yes, we are that crazy family who decorates as soon as Halloween is over (inside only...no lights outside).  As busy as we are, we like to enjoy our decorations as long as possible (We take them down right after the new year...too depressing to keep them up after that.), and Jason and I feel as though the decorations make our house a happier place.  I love sitting in the living room, with the tree glowing nearby and stockings on the mantle.  Connor cheers, "Ooh, pretty!" in delight every afternoon when I turn the trees on, and it is one of the first things he asks for when he wakes up in the morning. 

library tree

living room tree (still needs a topper)


living room decorations
 
My attempt to show what the trees look like at night was unsuccessful.

Despite a few setbacks (a smoking, flaming cord to the big tree, which was a cheap $3 fix, thankfully, at the local hardware store; an angel tree-topper that no longer lights; a couple of broken ornaments), we finished decorating just in time to get ready for my mom's big 50th birthday bash, which we hosted.

We served chili, crackers, cheese, and drinks, and Aunt MB made the mouthwatering cake.  We had lots of black decorations, an Over the Hill badge for the birthday girls, and lots of love.  We had a great time, eating, talking, opening gifts, and spending time with family (and Mom's best pal Becky, too).  I was so glad to be able to celebrate my mom's 50th, and am thankful for all of the help from Aunt MB and Linds.

Aunt MB's creation

about to eat

What can one really say about these three?













giving Mimi a birthday flower

Sunday was another day of celebrating with my mom (Sun. was her actual birthday.).  Jason, Dad, and Linds headed out after church to attend the Bengals game in Nashville, so after attending my church's first service, Connor and I visited Mom's church to spend some birthday time with her.  We had a delicious lunch, shared with Mom's cousin and friend Anne-Marie.

Mom graciously offered to take Connor Sun. afternoon so I could shake a bad sinus headache, and ended up taking him to church with her as well.  He had a blast, and I attended small group by myself, where I got to hold a precious baby for most of the night, and then our grouped packed up and headed to our church's staff appreciation dinner, where I indulged in lots of good food, from fried chicken to corn pudding to hashbrown casserole.

Monday was the first of what will hopefully be many Family Christmas Movie Nights.  Jason thought up the concept of inviting family over each Monday night until Christmas to watch a different holiday film.  We started with Elf, one of our all-time favorites.  Connor was even entertained.  The theme was red candies, and Jason displayed Twizzlers, peppermints, candy canes, Big Red gum (taped strategically under the bar on the island in true Elf style), and lots of other goodies.  Mom made two desserts, and we had popcorn as well.  It was truly a magical time of family fun, and I look forward to next week's selection.  When he takes the time, Jason can be an extremely thoughtful and creative person.







Tuesday was Election Day, which typically means a day off, and while it was for students, this year was a mandatory PD for teachers in our district.  It was, however, a quite productive day.  We were able to meet in content groups, and the English department is busy planning our second year of Poetry Out Loud, an amazing poetry grant that we plan to use as a platform to showcase the talents of our entire school.  We are hoping to outdo last year's event by far.

Jason, Mom, and I left a bit early from our respective meetings to attend an event (which also counted as PD) at WKU that night.  Rafe Esquith, a well known teacher, speaker, and author, gave a moving, motivational, and inspirational talk about his own experiences in the classroom (He has been teaching in LA for 29 years!), and I came away feeling as though I truly can make a difference in my little corner of the world.  I think that we as teachers are so often inundated with negative messages, complaints, lack of funds, etc... that we lose the beauty of why we love what we do, and I was reminded of this after hearing Rafe speak, and especially after hearing from the students whose lives he has changed.

We also had a great dinner with my sis' best friend Lindsay, her husband, her momm and her precious baby boy Patterson.  Connor loves babies, and Patterson was no exception. He wanted to touch, kiss, and love on him, and Lindsay was quite nice about it all, although I'm sure she didn't want a germy toddler all over her newborn.  :)


I came back to school on Wed. with a renewed vigor, and I have had a wonderful week with my students.  They managed to endure working on their memoirs and finshing up a mini-unit on persuasion and propaganda, and we actually had quite a fun time doing it.

Tonight, we are attending a wedding, so I'll hopefully have some pretty pictures to share for next week's Friday edition.


Random facts for the week:

- After our Gabba Live experience, Connor has fallen in love with Gabba all over again, particularly the "Boat" episode.  He asks specifically to watch it every day.

- He loves to sing "Happy Birthday."  It is the first song he actually knows all the words to, and since my mom's bday was the most recent, he goes around the house singing, "Happy birthday to you!  Happy birthday, Mimi!"  He is too cute sometimes.

- Connor has always loves baths and showers, but his current obsession is to take a bath in the "big tub" as he calls it, which is the whirlpool tub in our room.  he plays with trucks, fish, and dumps cups of water everywhere, but his favorite thing to do is lie down on his belly, swishing back and forth, saying "I wimmin, I wimmin." (swimming)


Random photos for the week:


with Sydney, the best student aide EVER

sharing treats with "Ninny"

sisters

Have a blessed weekend, friends!